Uneasy about your kid's iPhone obsession? These 3 parental control apps can help. (2025)

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Overview

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Best for most Apple users

Apple Screen Time

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Best if your child has an Android

Google Family Link

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Go to Google Family Link

Best paid option

Bark

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It doesn't matter what age your kid is: Whether it's their very first phone or their fifth, parents are going to worry about what's behind that scrolling and tapping. Parental control apps have come to be a convenient compromise between kids who really don't want to hand over their phone and parents who really don't want to have to confiscate it.

How do parental control apps work?

At their core, parental control software lets you monitor your child's phone, tablet, or computer remotely. Corresponding apps are downloaded both on the parent's device and on the child's device. From there, parents can do anything from monitor internet searches and browsing history, block inappropriate or distracting apps, or limit screen time all together. It's a less invasive and more respectful method than physically snooping through their phone or computer — and when kids know that their activity is being watched or managed, good habits might stick better.

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Worries of kids turning into technology zombies certainly aren't new, but feel especially relevant in an online landscape ruled by social media. According to the American Academy and Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, children ages 8-12 spend on average four to six hours a day using screens, with that number sitting higher at nine hours for teens. The time in front of those screens can pose risks: in the past few years alone, both Tiktok and Meta have faced lawsuits alleging that social companies make their platforms intentionally addictive, and can negatively impact users' mental health.

In other words, it's not easy being a kid online — parental control apps can help you and your child foster a safer relationship to online spaces.

Apple's Screen Time vs. third-party parental control apps

If you and your child both have iPhones, generally the easiest option is to use the native iOS solution: Screen Time. Additionally, TikTok, Roblox, and Meta all offer built-in parental control specific to their apps.

Back in 2019, a sweep of third-party parental control apps on the App Store severely curbed functionality on some of the most popular downloads. It was around that same time, in response to accusations that its devices were too addictive, Apple unveiled Screen Time: An iOS-specific screen time tracker that parents could utilize to mitigate their child's usage. Not only is this app relatively comprehensive in what it offers, but it's also completely free. And unlike the parental control landscape of about five years ago, you can get a comprehensive suite of features without paying a cent — that's why two out of three of our picks are free to use.

More recently, Apple also introduced plans to make sure app developers are including child safety settings within apps themselves, including an age range verification that can limit what features of an app are available based on a user's age range.

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The controls baked into iOS will suffice for a lot of people. They can set screen time limits, block certain apps and websites, or restrict new downloads or things with an explicit content rating altogether. But Screen Time becomes useless pretty quickly if the parent or child has an Android or if the parent and child share a device, which is why we included other options on this list.

Some parents suggest downloading one of these apps on your kid's phone without telling them. Here's our take: Don't do that. We'd be remiss to omit the possibility of loopholes for kids to look for if they know the app is there,but monitoring their activity behind their back feels like rebellion or resentment waiting to happen. Depending on how much of the content on your child's device that an app can see, it could quickly become a breach of privacy.

Instead, try to agree on a screen time routine and a list of apps and websites that are appropriate. Letting them in on the process can build trust rather than diminish it, and having reinforced but reasonable guidelines for screen time can help curb any device dependencies. Plus, their understanding of why TikTok and Instagram are blocked during homework hours or at bedtime can help them learn a solid set of cyber safety habits.

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Our Pick

The Good & The Bad

  • Part of Apple settings on iPhones, iPads, and Macs
  • Blocks websites across all browsers
  • Can set when your child is allowed to use certain apps
  • Can restrict who your child can talk to on the phone, via calls, Messages, FaceTime, and iCloud
  • Child can send requests to extend time on apps or screen time in general
  • Ask to Buy feature allows you to remotely approve app purchases
  • No built-in location settings
  • Can't read the content of any of your child's text messages
  • No specific restriction settings for social media apps and YouTube

Who it's for

Everyone with an Apple device has Screen Time, making it one of the most convenient options out there. It's also completely free, while still offering a host of customizable settings, making it our top pick for most Apple users.

Why we picked this

If you want to be aware of how and how much time your kid is spending on their phone, iPad, or MacBook, Screen Time has got you covered.

The app can be found directly in your settings. Once you add your child's Apple account, you can start adjusting the settings and see their daily usage, with the amount of time they're spending on each app (in the exact same way as your personal Screen Time). With the Downtime feature, you can limit what apps they use and when, along with who they're contacting, whether they're using Messages, FaceTime, or their iCloud account.

If at any point your child wants to spend more time texting a friend or scrolling on TikTok, they can send you a remote request to extend their time for 15 minutes, an hour, or the rest of the day. For some apps like YouTube, Screen Time doesn't actually offer much in content restriction or monitoring, so if that's an important feature, you might want to check out the paid option on our list, Bark.

However, Screen Time does include the option to filter web browser content and to approve or deny requests to download any apps from the App Store. For location tracking, you'll have to switch to the Find My app, which is also automatically downloaded on any iOS device.

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Google Family Link

Best if your child has an Android

Go to Google Family Link

The Good & The Bad

  • Uses Google's tried-and-true location services
  • Easy linking with existing Gmail account
  • App just got a redesign in Feb. 2025
  • Can adjust settings for school hours
  • Can ring a lost phone that's on silent
  • Includes conversation prompts for you and your child about safety and monitoring
  • Both you and your child need a Google account to link the apps
  • Doesn't filter inappropriate content on its own
  • Can't limit websites on browsers other than Google Chrome
  • Can't see child's screen, messages, or listen in to calls

Who it's for

If you have an iPhone but your child has an Android, Google Family Link will be a better solution than Apple's Screen Time.

Why we like It

Diehard iPhone owners who still use Google Maps, Google Docs, or Gmail aren't hard to find, and we don't blame them —Google's apps are as straightforward to use as the search engine itself, and often easier to organize than an Apple version (if one exists). Unsurprisingly, the tech giant has its own parental control app. Google Family Link offers a pretty damn comprehensive list of monitoring and management features, and the fact that it's free makes it hard to justify paying elsewhere. Plus, its already streamlined design just got a refresh earlier this year, along with an option to designate certain app settings for school hours.

The "you get what you pay for" mantra usually applies to parental control apps —the free versions of apps with optional premium subscriptions are purposefully meager to get you to pay. But when it's Google that we're talking about, simplicity doesn't mean skimpy. Family Link covers screen time limits including bedtime schedules, app management like activity reports and a requirement for parent approval for new apps, a website blocker, and location tracking (as long as they have their device on them). You can Setup is a breeze for anyone who already has a Gmail account, though the controls gets tripped up when school email accounts and Google Classroom are thrown into the mix.

Streamlined as it is, Family Link does have some limitations. You won't be able to see your child's screen, read their messages or emails, change the password on their Google account, or listen to their calls.

Details

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Go to Google Family Link

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Bark

Best paid option

Go to Bark

The Good & The Bad

  • Can monitor an unlimited amount of devices
  • Well designed dashboard for monitoring any alerts
  • AI monitoring available on 30 apps
  • Tons of screen time adjustments
  • More monitoring of third-party apps than screentime
  • Tracks screen time, messages, and location in one place
  • Devices available with Bark software built-in
  • Costs money on a monthly scale
  • Snapchat text messages can't be monitored on iOS devices

Who it's for

If you want more active monitoring than Screen Time or Google Family Link, Bark allows for an impressive amount of screen time customization, and allows you to see more of how your child is spending their time on their phone.

Why we picked this

Like our other picks, Bark allows you to limit screen time and restrict certain websites and apps on multiple devices. So how's it different?

Well for starters, Bark can scan how your child is actually using their device, whether it be texting, scrolling on TikTok, or searching queries online. The app does this by using an AI that can identify any mentions of suicide, drugs, alcohol, cyberbullying, or other predatory indicators that you might want to know about — you can toggle which you want to keep a look out for. If any issues are identified, the app will send you an alert along with a snippet to review to ensure your child is engaging in safe behavior online.

It makes sense that Bark's functionality is more involved than the other two apps on this list — it costs $14 per month. However, you can add an unlimited number of devices to your account for monitoring.

Along with the AI feature, Bark's screen time settings allow you to adjust which apps are available for different times of the day, like bedtime, school, and free time. The app also uses geofencing, so you can track your child's location in real-time, and toggle settings to receive alerts or check-ins from your child directly.

Details

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Go to Bark

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Uneasy about your kid's iPhone obsession? These 3 parental control apps can help. (9)

Leah Stodart

Senior Shopping Reporter

Leah Stodart is a Philadelphia-based Senior Shopping Reporter at Mashable where she covers essential home tech like vacuums and TVs as well as sustainable swaps and travel. Her ever-growing experience in these categories comes in clutch when making recommendations on how to spend your money during shopping holidays like Black Friday, which Leah has been covering for Mashable since 2017.

The robot vacuum beat in particular has cemented itself as Leah's main ~thing~ across the past few years. Since 2019, her expertise has been perpetually bolstered by the meticulous eye she keeps on robot vacuum deals and new releases, but more importantly, her hands-on experience with more than 25 robot vacuums tested in her own home. (This number has probably gone up by the time you're reading this.) That at-home testing is standardized through Mashable's robot testing guide — a granular scoring rubric for assessing all aspects of owning and using a robot vacuum on the daily — that Leah created herself.

Uneasy about your kid's iPhone obsession? These 3 parental control apps can help. (10)

Bethany Allard

Lead Shopping Reporter

Bethany Allard is a Los Angeles-based shopping reporter at Mashable covering beauty tech, dating, sex and relationships, and headphones. That basically means she puts her hair through a lot, scrolls through a lot of dating apps, and rotates through a lot of different headphones. In addition to testing out and rounding up the best products, she also covers deals for Mashable, paying an especially obsessive amount of attention to Apple deals and prices. That knowledge comes in handy when she's covering shopping holidays like Prime Day and Black Friday, which she's now done for three years at Mashable.

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